Friday, January 16, 2009

16w3d - I guess that's 4 months

And true to the norm for twins, I measure/look 6-8 weeks ahead of this. I really don't mind. I like looking more pregnant and less fat.

My Dr appointment didn't really tell me anything different, that I didn't already know.

My weight went up 1 pound in the 4 weeks for a total gain of 5 pounds. Since I still have lots of fluff and the babes are growing well, I'm not worried about the slow gain. I'm not dieting and not really doing anything called exercise (although I'm thinking of going swimming tonite).

We listened to the heartbeats, which is always nice, but since I have the rental doppler, I do that fairly regularly myself.

She's trying to get through to the OB to book a first appointment. I'm going to have to prod the office to find out what's taking so long.

My detailed anatomy scan will be on Feb 4th. To answer the oft asked question, yes I want to know gender. I'm not certain they will tell me. Its very clear on their form that they wont tell gender until 24 weeks and I'll be just over 19. Why 24 weeks you ask? Well in Canada, you can get an abortion until 23 weeks and there are people (too many) who will abort a female fetus (grrrr!). I'm hoping they will let it slip or it will be too obvious to not notice. If not, I'll book a 3-D scan and find out (I want a 3-D anyway).

I can sometimes feel minor movement from the babe lower down. It's a bit of a thumping, drumming feeling. I call this one Thumper. The upper babe sits behind a placenta and its harder to find the heartbeat and I cant really feel the movements yet. I call this one Little Rascal, shy with a playful nature. So collectively they are the babes or bump and individually Thumper and Little Rascal. I like these names (not once their born!) as they represent their known personalities so far.

On to names. I have a few picked out, but nothing definite. Anytime I see a name I like, I write it down to add to the list. A few things I want are a name that wont be constantly mispronounced, a name that is not in the top 50 names (not in the top 100 if I can swing it), a name that flows and does not produce initials that spell anything. I also don't want to use a name of anyone around my life. I don't want to seem to be playing favorites, nor do I want someone to mistakenly think the baby was named after him/her. I don't really want to share names with people in advance since I'm prepared to change my mind at any point until the papers are signed. I'm hoping to have several name options in my head and name the babies after they are born and I can meet them in person.

I still have no distinct pregnancy symptoms, which is okay now that I can hear the heartbeat occasionally and see the growth. I have had a horribly sore/tight neck that has caused headaches for the last week or so. I saw a register massage therapist yesterday. Apparently some of the knots were so bad she was surprised I was able to sit or stand as fluid to the brain was blocked. She obviously doesn't know my high tolerance for pain. It certainly has helped, but it will need more than one I think as my neck/back muscles seem to like being knotted. But that will have to wait until the tenderness goes down a bit. For now, I'll survive.

That's about it for how things with me, Thumper and Little Rascal are going. I'll try for another belly shot soon.

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

nice update. Will watch for the new pic update, for now will will give them their kiss good night.

Jojobee said...

Wow! Congrats on being almost 17 weeks and for everything going SO great! What a blessing! Yes, more belly shots please! :)

Anonymous said...

Thanks for the update. I was wondering how you were doing! :)

Jean

OperationFamily said...

Congrats! Do you remember me from the Penzion Uno? It's so great to hear you're doing well and now with twins on the way! So very happy for you!
We are doing well, and have a baby girl on the way - due in less than 4 weeks now.
Good luck!
Joy

K J and the kids said...

So exciting. I will not lie..twins are hard...but it's all worth it when they sleep. at the same time. for a long time. :)
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R said...

Wow. Feb. be here before you know it. I can't believe it's already that time. Congrats to you girl!